I've had many arguments with people and that's pretty bad, but after each one I noticed two things: they were toxic or I needed them in my life. One argument I had was with a friend of mine (A) and his friend (M). M didn't like me and I didn't like her, but of course A was best friends with both of us. M started a bunch of drama which was funny since I ignored her all the time. Then one day she told A that I hated him and talked behind his back to her. I was mad because he believed her even though I had screenshots of my conversations with M.
In the end he forgave me and M still didn't like me. I wish my friendship with A lasted but sadly we stopped being friends because he changed. He was a toxic friend for sure but I still miss him.
Having to drop people from your life is a very hard thing to do. I've had to do that a few times myself, so I totally understand what that feels like.
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